LET THY WILL BE DONE NOT MY WILL BE DONE

Infact this ego of the mind is fed since childhood. As we do things, only what we like and ignore people and things we dislike.

At times we are so limited by the narrow thinking of the mind who wants to control every thing that at times we do not let go of our views and ideas and miss the bigger scheme of things. *Thy will be done is a beautiful way in life to accept things which in the short run may seem very harsh but in the long run in the scheme of life every part of the puzzle fits in perfectly.*

Thy will be done makes us accept situations and also helps us deal with our frustrations due to failure in a magnanimous manner. For example, lets say a student is studying really hard with a lot of effort to succeed in a science exam, only to fail in his examination at the end of it all. At that point in time, he feels really sad because all the effort seems to have been a waste. He shifts to the commerce exams and in time to come completes his MBA and becomes one of the top bankers in the city. So at the time of failure to reduce the agitations and frustrations of the mind if he had learnt this maxim *(Whatever happens happens for a reason and for the good or Thy will be done or proverbially as they say “BECAUSE YOU HAD A BAD DREAM DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL NOT SLÉEP EVER AGAIN”).* 

 When our monkey mind works on these maxims in life it learns to deal with disappointments and failures in an apt manner and when the mind is silent it takes important decisions correctly. When a room is silent its simpler to take a calm decision rather than in a noisy room. 

 A very good example to this is the story of *AKBAR AND BIRBAL (if you are a good tale reader like ne you would be preview to the story).* This story highlights the point where Akbar looses one of his fingers while hunting with Birbal and Birbal tells the the king everything  that happens actually happens for the good. Akbars mind facing that pain cannot understand how there can be any good in him loosing a finger. Well we all have to realise at some point that every incident when like when you pull up your legs and look at them, you realise that life is just perfectly placed to make you the person you are today and every other day. 

 Had akbar not lost his finger he would have been sacrificed by the adivasis who had caught him in the jungle. Since his finger was cut they realised they cannot give him as a sacrifice to their god because in their eyes he was defective due to lack of one finger. Akbar in that story felt sorry and realised the reason behind him loosing the finger but there are so many instances and experiences which may seem so disappointing, terrifying and depressing and the reason behind the occurrence or the reason might not come to light but the Monkey mind has to have the faith in the maxim that *Thy will be done and not mine will be done.* 

 At that point of self realisation, life becomes such a joyous experience because disappoitntments are also taken in the right spirit and appropriate decisions are taken with a calm mind.

 Finaly, dear clients and friends… *LET THY WILL BE DONE PERIOD!!!*

 Warmly…

Security Expert/Motivator/Inspirer

Capt K Joshua Kalio

MD/CEO

Medallion76 Security

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CHARACTERISTICS OF TOP PERFORMING PEOPLE

… like an electrical transfer of enthusiasm.

People who are not committed to what they do lead very empty lives. Caring is a critical element in life. All men and women who enjoy great lives care about what they do. They have passion about what they do and they love what they do.

*3. They are prepared.* 

Successful people review every detail in advance. They do things that the average person is not willing to do. They make sacrifices the average person is not willing to make. But the difference it makes is extraordinary.

Before you go into a meeting, do your homework. Before you give a speech, research the information and practice your talking points. Dive in deep to review every detail of every situation before you take it on.

Successful people are more concerned about pleasing results than they are about pleasing methods. There is nothing more complimentary to your team, your client, your audience than the feeling that you have thoughtfully prepared for the tasks.

*4. They are continuous learners.* 

Like the popular musician Olamide would say *ARE YOU A LEARNER?😃* Well high achievers recognize that if they are not continually getting better, they are getting worse. They read, they listen to CDs and they take additional training. The professional never stops learning. So to keep improving you need to read, listen to CDs and take continuous training in your field.The key is *Never stop learning.*

*5. They are responsible.*

The top people in our society have an attitude of self-employment. That is essential, because 100 percent of us are self-employed. *We are presidents of our own personal services corporation*. You work for yourself, and the biggest mistake we can ever make is to think we work for anyone else. The person who signs our pay check may change, our jobs may change, but we are always the same. We are the one constant.

The fact of the matter is that this is not optional, it is mandatory. You are the president of your own career, your own life, your own finances, your own body, your own family, your own health. You are totally responsible.

Finally, my candid advice to you all is that we have to be responsible. No one will ever do it for us. It is the most liberating and exhilarating thought of all, to think, to realize, that you are the president of your own life.

Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines practiced every day *PERIOD!!!*.

Warmly…

Security Expert/Motivator/Inspirer

Capt K Joshua Kalio

MD/CEO

Medallion76 Security

BEING THERE WHEN YOU ARE MOST WANTED

It is just best to be open and flexible  to the idea of advice be it from whomever if it appeases and sorts the issue. There was this flood once in a village and one individual was about to drown and he was praying to God to save him . An individual in a boat approached him to take him to safer lands but he was so obsessed that his prayers should be answered and God saving him he refused help. God stood laughing in front of him and saying i was the boatman who came to help you in disguise. 

That is the story with our lives we depend and put our hopes on one spouse or one friend that he or she is the only one that will  help us and when he/she disappoints we feel betrayed not realizing the Almighty sent help through a different individual but we failed to acknowledge HIM. Its best to have your relationship with Him because he never disappoints.

 Furthermore, please note that in every situation in life an individual has two choices; *there will be an easy choice and a slightly difficult choice.* the easier choice may be quite in line with your personality and might require the least effort and less of emotional turmoil while the other choice might be quite contradictory to the personality and might involve a lot of emotional turmoil.

 Every human being is blessed with the prerogative of freedom of choice but  once you make the choice there is a package deal that comes with it, hence the need to be calm when taking and making or being part of a decision because after having made the choice a lot of people want to discard the emotional turmoil and other stuff that comes along with it. 

 It is like choosing a rose without the thorn which is inevitable. Any choice made comes with a package deal. We resist the package deal and the so called supplementary stuff that comes along with the package. 

 Finally, my dear friends, I advice that you make choices true to your conscience rather than choosing the easier one *PERIOD!!*

 Warmly…

Security Expert/Motivator/Inspirer

Capt K Joshua Kalio

MD/CEO

Medallion76 Security